Banned from Church
2008-07-28

By D. E. Herrod, B.Ed.E, M.Div

Recently ABC News had a report about Adam Race, an autistic boy, who was banned from attending Church of St. Joseph in Bertha, Minnesota. Apparently Adam had become so disruptive that the church considered his attendance a threat to others. Rev. Daniel Walz claims that accommodations were made or at least offered to the family. Now, a restraining order has been issued preventing Adam from attending services. The Races insists that no accommodations were offered and that the boy was not dangerous. While I am not personally involved, this incident has really bothered me.

There is something about banning a person from church that just does not seem right. A church is supposed to be a place of refuge and worship for all. I have worked with teenagers long enough to know that sometimes it may be necessary, however a court order does seem excessive. I am just not comfortable with the thought of banning someone from church.

One of the things I have tried to do with my writings is promote understanding of those with disabilities. It seems that there should be another solution to the situation than preventing congregants from attending. According to what I have read about this situation the church claims to have tried several solutions including offering services in another location or services in the Races home. While the Races have supposedly refused all alternatives the church has offered. Reportedly the Races have insisted that their son should be allowed to attend church period. The church claims Adam is disruptive and dangerous.

It seems that both parties need to support and understanding in the matter. The church needs to be trained in handling those with disabilities especially how to handle Adam. Ideally volunteers in the church could be trained to provide assistance and teach Adam in a manner that best meets his needs.

The Races may need the support of their community of faith not to be shunned. It is also possible that the Races may have unreasonable expectations of what their son is capable.

Finally, one major concern I have is what is in the best interest of Adam. Are his needs really met? Yes he can sit in church but is he capable of a meaningful experience? What is best for Adam not the desires of his parents or church should ultimately be considered.